How to Do Hard Things

Ever feel like something is just too difficult to handle? We all hit moments that feel impossible, but here’s the truth: you’re capable of more than you think.

Hard things don’t just test us—they shape us. And if you push through, you’ll come out stronger every time.

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Let’s be real—doing hard things isn’t fun. Whether it’s chasing a big goal, navigating a tough situation, or just getting through a rough day, it’s easy to want to give up. But those hard moments? They’re what build resilience, confidence, and strength.

Here’s how you can start tackling the hard stuff head-on and come out stronger on the other side.

1. Take It One Step at a Time

Big challenges feel overwhelming when you focus on the whole thing at once. Instead, break it down. Don’t think about the entire mountain—just take the first step.

Small progress adds up faster than you think. Every tiny step forward makes the next one easier.

Pro Tip: Write down the first three small steps you can take today. Cross them off as you go. Each one builds momentum.

2. Lock in on Your “Why”

When things get tough, it’s easy to lose motivation. That’s when your “why” matters most.

Why are you doing this? What’s driving you?

Maybe it’s a goal you’re chasing, a dream you refuse to let go of, or a promise you made to yourself. Whatever it is, remind yourself of it daily. Your “why” is what keeps you moving forward, even when the road gets rough.

3. Lean Into the Struggle

Struggle isn’t a sign you’re failing—it’s proof that you’re growing. No one gets stronger without resistance. Every challenge you overcome is building the kind of resilience that stays with you for life.

Hard things feel hard because they matter. They’re shaping you into the person you’re meant to be. So instead of avoiding the struggle, embrace it. Every bit of effort is pushing you toward the future you want.

ACTIONABLE NEXT STEPS:

• Pick One Small Step: Choose a hard task you’ve been avoiding. Break it down and start with just one small action today.

• Define Your “Why”: Write down the reason you’re pushing through. Keep it somewhere visible.

• Celebrate Every Win: No matter how small, every step forward is progress. Recognize it—you earned it.

TAKEAWAYS

Hard things are unavoidable, but they’re also what make you stronger. Here’s how to start tackling them:

• Break big challenges into smaller, manageable steps.

• Keep your “why” in focus to stay motivated.

• Embrace the struggle—because that’s where real growth happens.

You’ve handled hard things before, and you can do it again. Keep going.

Your Advanced Mindset

Michael, Founder of GritAndGraceMinds & SocietyOfFaith